Handfasting
Honouring the traditions of the past.
A ceremony rich with tradition
Handfasting is one of the oldest recognised wedding customs, with roots in Pagan, Neopagan, Viking/Norse, Wiccan, folklore, Celtic, Judaic, and Hindu traditions. This ritual, often believed to be the origin of the phrase "tying the knot," is a deeply meaningful and visual ceremony suitable for all, regardless of spiritual or religious beliefs. Handfastings, led by Nick, can take place in some of the UK’s most mystical stone circles, including Stonehenge, Avebury, and Rollright, as well as various locations across Europe.
What does the ceremony entail?
A handfasting ceremony is much like a traditional marriage, where the couple’s clasped hands are draped or tied with a cord or ribbon. The couple, along with the celebrant, family, and friends, gather to exchange vows and often rings. The ceremony is bespoke, crafted to reflect the couple's unique desires and aspirations. Typically, handfastings are held in natural settings, adorned with seasonal flowers and foliage, lit by lanterns, and filled with the scents of sage and frankincense, honouring the elements of nature. Nick, who follows Earth-based traditions, invites the couple into this sacred space to conduct the ceremony, often with the assistance of a Priestess or celebrants as needed.
Handfasting Options and Traditions
Handfastings celebrate love, family, and friendship in a romantic and spiritual way, creating memories that last a lifetime. Nick offers three types of handfasting ceremonies:
One Year and One Day Handfasting: This betrothal lasts for a year and a day, with loosely tied cords symbolising a commitment that is significant but not binding.
Full Celtic Handfasting: An earth-centred ceremony focused on nature. After a year and a day, the couple may return to have their vows and cords or ribbons tightly knotted, symbolising a permanent commitment and the source of the phrase “to tie the knot.”
The Knot Ceremony – Partial Handfasting: For couples who prefer a traditional wedding ceremony with a handfasting included immediately after their vows. This blend of traditions is increasingly popular and adds a beautiful moment to any ceremony.
The ceremony, unless part of a traditional wedding ceremony, is conducted in a circle symbolising eternity, includes calling on the elements—Earth, Fire, Air, and Water—to bless the couple. This ritual helps participants connect with the life force within themselves and the living earth, making the ceremony a profound celebration of love and unity. If you’re interested in having a handfasting ceremony or adding this element to a traditional wedding ceremony, please get in touch
